Love in a Hot Tub vs. Early Morning Dunkin Donuts Action

My question is can you actually have a meaningful relationship with a woman who you hook up with randomly in a hot tub at a party while she is still married to your friend?

This question I have pondered and my common sense screams no but stranger things have happened. Things like men waiting for the hot tub woman to get divorced, so they can marry her. Who would figure something like that could happen? Not I.

This morning's encounter with Ms. I'm engaged but I will throw myself at another man in Dunkin Donuts at 8am, makes me question the sanity of men. The man she choose to shower her attention on was actually recently divorced and encouraging her. I normally wouldn't care what insane women do with there bodies or time but didn't like a few comments she made to me. If this follows the same pattern as hot tub woman. She will marry and eventually divorce said husband, alienate the new beaus friends and family move to Albany and marry new beau and only select hiking equipment in her gift registry.

This brings me back to my little situation. I tend to say what is on my mind and I told the Dunkin Donuts guy it is in his best interest to run for the hills because he might end up as a sad headline in the New York Post "Love Triangle Murder-Nice Honest Divorcee sliced to bits because he was involved with a not so sane married woman" or even worse "Mob hit- Divorce Man targeted due to his extramarital affair with Mob princess". There is no happy ending for this one. I guess from here on I'll try to keep my opinions to myself.

It amazes me how many people do not avoid these dramatic situations.

Update

I have moved on and evolved. I found an amazing job that is challenging and enjoyable. I'm engaged. So very happy!

No time to blog lunch meeting but I will blog again soon.